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May 7, 2005 16:21:10 GMT 10
Post by David on May 7, 2005 16:21:10 GMT 10
And, erm, yeah I WOULD have a problem with that! WE all know that i look younger than my age (cus I got it loike dat!!! hahahahaha). But, yeah.....I wouldn't wanna be running around with a 50 yr old dude at the age of 70!!!! You wouldn't want to be running around with a 50 year-old at the age of 70? What the? You're obviously not rejecting a guy like that on the basis of immaturity, so what? Lack of common interests? Do you believe you're going to change as you get older to the extent where you would no longer be willing to go out with a 50 year-old? If you'd go out with a 50-year old now, why not then? Seriously, if you want to restrict yourself to bald wizzened guys who are way past their prime, I'm not going to stop you. Just don't come complaining to me about feeling unfulfilled! I don't see the age gap of 50-70 as anything like the age gap between 20-40. If you were 100 would you go out with an 80-year old?
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May 7, 2005 17:08:18 GMT 10
Post by bahahahahaha again on May 7, 2005 17:08:18 GMT 10
What on earth are you talking about? I don't look to others to "fulfill" me. That comes from The Spirit. I don't have a special person in my life right now and I am the most fulfilled that I have EVER been in my entire life. Happy from within FIRST and then you can look outward in a healthy and positive manner.
And I wouldn't wanna be hanging out with a 50 yr old cus at 70yrs old...well I may just be tooooo darned tired!! HeHe!! Sure, anything is possible Davey B!
No worries!
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May 7, 2005 17:16:55 GMT 10
Post by David on May 7, 2005 17:16:55 GMT 10
Okay, so I was just kidding about the "unfulfilled" part lol. BTW, the Spirit is a guy right?
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May 7, 2005 17:20:42 GMT 10
Post by David on May 7, 2005 17:20:42 GMT 10
I really think a 40 yr old man and a 60 yr old woman wouldn't have that much in common? By that age she would be losing her looks and could look quite old, whereas at 40 you would still be virile and wanting a physical relationship, which she may not be able to give you... Just out of interest, why couldn't a 60 year-old woman give someone a physical relationship? Even if she was paralyzed, all she'd have to do is just lie there! I'm sure her partner would be willing to do all the work himself!
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May 7, 2005 17:30:30 GMT 10
Post by David on May 7, 2005 17:30:30 GMT 10
Nothing to report about Nicola. I didn't come to the quiz this week. But I do still have hope for going out with her. My basis for hope is my recollection of how she said something to me last week. Hopefully it isn't my memory at fault. The words she used are ambiguous on their own. At the end I asked her if she had any free time in the next week. She said "Not in the next week, but I'll be here next week so you can see me then." The way I took that at the time was that she was implying that she only wanted to see me at quizzes. But on thinking of the way she said it I now think what she meant was that I could see her next week about going out. The way she said it is the critical factor for what she meant. The fact that she accepted to go out with me when she was still going out with a guy shows she is keeping her options open, and it seems unlikely that she would exclude me from consideration before she had even gone out on a date with that other guy.
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May 7, 2005 22:10:41 GMT 10
Post by prinia on May 7, 2005 22:10:41 GMT 10
coff!!!!!!! At the 40 and 60yrs!!!! Good grief.... wot the!! sorry, but before I slink away.... it all depends on everything.. believe me - really - do that.... believe me...
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May 7, 2005 22:35:11 GMT 10
Post by sorry on May 7, 2005 22:35:11 GMT 10
I think its better to forget her for awhile if shes interested she will find you
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May 8, 2005 4:56:28 GMT 10
Post by prinias right on May 8, 2005 4:56:28 GMT 10
coff!!!!!!! At the 40 and 60yrs!!!! Good grief.... wot the!! sorry, but before I slink away.... it all depends on everything.. believe me - really - do that.... believe me... Ms. P I believe you. At the end of the day...it depends on the two people. I've seen your beautiful love...or "toyboy" as u have said here! ;D Honestly, I can't come up with a reason WHY NOT if the two people are cool with it. Just traditional thinkin on my part (re: previous comments).
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May 8, 2005 5:05:37 GMT 10
Post by amen on May 8, 2005 5:05:37 GMT 10
I think its better to forget her for awhile if shes interested she will find you Davey B, I agree with Lurker Sorry. Just move on, do some fun things, hang with ur friends, etc. You will miss out on SO much if you keep thinkin about "What coulda been." Waste of time. And very bad for YOU. If she's interested....she'll let you know. (and u gotta hear it from HER..not others.) If someone likes you, you won't have to sit and analyze every lil thing...and what it may mean. YOU WILL KNOW...cus the person will let you know.
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May 8, 2005 11:38:49 GMT 10
Post by David on May 8, 2005 11:38:49 GMT 10
The reason why I'd take this so hard is because it would probably be several years at least until I had another chance. That's depressing. It's not really about Nicola. I don't know her well, and couldn't say whether we might end up together. That wouldn't make me feel all that better, though.
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May 8, 2005 13:27:43 GMT 10
Post by hmmmm on May 8, 2005 13:27:43 GMT 10
The reason why I'd take this so hard is because it would probably be several years at least until I had another chance. That's depressing. It's not really about Nicola. I don't know her well, and couldn't say whether we might end up together. That wouldn't make me feel all that better, though. That's not for you to say. You don't know when, why, how, what, or who. Have faith. Stop worrying. You'll get an answer. AT THE RIGHT TIME.
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May 8, 2005 13:38:10 GMT 10
Post by td on May 8, 2005 13:38:10 GMT 10
Just out of interest, why couldn't a 60 year-old woman give someone a physical relationship? Even if she was paralyzed, all she'd have to do is just lie there! I'm sure her partner would be willing to do all the work himself! *not touching this one*
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May 8, 2005 15:05:26 GMT 10
Post by David on May 8, 2005 15:05:26 GMT 10
AHAHAHAHAHA@ Jess! Erm, yep....that would be a tad bit scary!! Yikes!!! Yeah, Davey B....stop making fun of my age. You'd think, by the way u talk, that I was a grandmother or something! Pffftttt! Gosh! Maybe you aren't, but I've known grandmothers who are younger than you! Maybe they forgot to use protection.
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May 9, 2005 1:00:26 GMT 10
Post by yikes on May 9, 2005 1:00:26 GMT 10
The reason why I'd take this so hard is because it would probably be several years at least until I had another chance. That's depressing. It's not really about Nicola. I don't know her well, and couldn't say whether we might end up together. That wouldn't make me feel all that better, though. several years ! wow she was busy then!
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May 10, 2005 23:02:11 GMT 10
Post by David on May 10, 2005 23:02:11 GMT 10
It's now Wednesday, so I will be seeing Nicola tonight. Quite a big day for me. I'll let you know what happens when I get home. I'll either be in a really good mood or a really bad mood.
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