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Apr 12, 2005 22:57:35 GMT 10
Post by so we talked a little on Apr 12, 2005 22:57:35 GMT 10
when is the date?
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Apr 13, 2005 5:47:13 GMT 10
Post by yahoo on Apr 13, 2005 5:47:13 GMT 10
yeah, i wanna know too? whens the date!!! YAHHHH! for Davey!
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Apr 13, 2005 10:51:43 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 13, 2005 10:51:43 GMT 10
No date has been set yet. She said she would let me know because she's really busy at the moment. As to what we'll do, I imagine we'll go out to dinner.
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Apr 13, 2005 11:11:37 GMT 10
Post by woah on Apr 13, 2005 11:11:37 GMT 10
shes a cool cucumber isnt she busy with date requests left right and centre hope she rings you soon
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Apr 13, 2005 11:26:16 GMT 10
Post by lunch is betta on Apr 13, 2005 11:26:16 GMT 10
Do lunch. Then if it is uncomfortable you can leave. And on a brighter note, if it goes well then you can hang out after...which then may lead to dinner too!!
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Apr 15, 2005 14:18:46 GMT 10
Post by update please on Apr 15, 2005 14:18:46 GMT 10
any news?
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Apr 15, 2005 14:24:46 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 15, 2005 14:24:46 GMT 10
No, I haven't heard back from her yet. She said she was really busy. Hopefully that's not a bad sign.
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Apr 15, 2005 15:59:15 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 15, 2005 15:59:15 GMT 10
I just heard from Dennis that he talked to Scott. Scott says he never asked Nicola out. Dennis thinks that's not what he said originally. Anyway, Dennis thinks Scott didn't get anywhere with her and has lost interest.
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Apr 27, 2005 22:03:02 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 27, 2005 22:03:02 GMT 10
I saw Nicola tonight, and she made it clear she wasn't interested. I overheard her talking about a first date with some new guy tomorrow. At the end I asked her if she was going to have any free time over the next week and she said that she was going to be busy over the next week but would see me at the quiz next week. It was clear what she meant. I'm very upset at the moment, and will be taking leave of this forum for an indefinite period. Don't worry about me, I'll survive.
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Apr 28, 2005 8:24:35 GMT 10
Post by to davey b on Apr 28, 2005 8:24:35 GMT 10
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Apr 30, 2005 19:38:48 GMT 10
Post by no worries on Apr 30, 2005 19:38:48 GMT 10
as you said u will survive and theres tons of fish in the sea...
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May 1, 2005 6:49:36 GMT 10
Post by yep on May 1, 2005 6:49:36 GMT 10
as you said u will survive and theres tons of fish in the sea... Davey B! Yep! Plenty of fish in the sea! And the sweetest fish will be the one that comes along at JUST THE RIGHT TIME!! Just you wait and see! Obviously there is something else in the works for you. Just think of it this way. If you were dating Nicola...when your SPECIAL SWEET FISH swims near you....YOU wouldn't even be paying attention!!! Cus you would be looking into Nicola's eyes!!! So just WATCH OUT!!! Big things are gonna happen for sure! THAT is what I know! You are special!
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May 2, 2005 4:46:46 GMT 10
Post by Spellcastersf on May 2, 2005 4:46:46 GMT 10
So what is the minimum age that you would say is 'too old' for me, a 27 year-old? Give me a number and give an accompanying explanation as to why you are certain that that number is correct. If you were to give 39 as that number then that would be to say that it would be okay for me to be in a relationship with a woman who is 38 years and 364 days old but not a woman one day older. That would border on the absurd. Opposites don't tend to attract, but that doesn't mean no people of vastly different ages aren't right for each other. Many are quite happy together... or am I to believe that their relationships aren't really as good as they look? Do you have an observationally-based test for determining whether to be in a relationship with a person, or is it solely predicated on finding out their age? What if you are interested in being in a relationship with a person but then find that, shock, horror, they are MUCH younger than they look, half your age in fact? Are you telling me you would change your mind about the person? There has to be some way of finding a person that doesn't involve finding out their age. As far as that 'older woman' is concerned, it is incredibly unlikely but possible that she is in fact less than ten years older than me. It's possible that she might just look really really old for her age. I'm surprised at you for advising me against going for this woman when I don't know her age and am guessing based on her looks. After all, if people often take you to be more than ten years younger then guys might exclude you for being 'too young' when you are in fact in their age range. So no I'm not convinced that anyone much older than me is 'too old' for me. If I can have good friends that age, people who really interest me, then surely I can have partners that age. There's one thing I would recommend you do, and that's to go down to your local video store and rent a copy of a movie called 'How Stella Got Her Groove Back.' You gotta get your groove back, girl! Live a little! Fight the power! Anyway, in order to convince me here you'll have to avoid generalizations and show why being in a relationship with a person half one's age (and vice versa) is wrong, whereas being a close friend of a person of the same age is fine. I don't see a difference with romance. It's just the same friendly relationship with kissing, sex etc added on. This is just my opinion ok, age does matter (if you know how old they are), being friends and being in a relationship are 2 totally different things. Try and imagining yourself dating your mum or dad or grandmother or grandfather, kissing them having sex with them, you wouldnt like it now would you, so why do it to someone you just met and "thinking" bout going into a relationship with, GROSS. If you dont know there age on the other hand then ask, I do all the time. To me age does matter....sorry but it does. Anywho thats just my opinion. Take care.
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May 2, 2005 16:11:45 GMT 10
Post by David on May 2, 2005 16:11:45 GMT 10
Today I related what Nicola said to me to someone else, and they noted that what she said to me was ambiguous. I then had a think about what she said and how she said it, and I'm now pretty sure she was encouraging me rather than brushing me off. I believe that by the way she said what she did she implied a couple of words she didn't say, words which change her meaning completely. So I'm feeling quite hopeful at the moment and will get back to you guys regarding further developments.
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May 2, 2005 16:15:57 GMT 10
Post by David on May 2, 2005 16:15:57 GMT 10
Try and imagining yourself dating your mum or dad or grandmother or grandfather, kissing them having sex with them, you wouldnt like it now would you, so why do it to someone you just met and "thinking" bout going into a relationship with, GROSS. I'm having a little difficulty understanding your logic here, and I certainly don't want to imagine any of that stuff. Furthermore, I wouldn't kiss or have sex with anyone I just met, and didn't say I would.
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