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Mar 30, 2005 21:20:23 GMT 10
Post by David on Mar 30, 2005 21:20:23 GMT 10
She did come tonight, though I didn't ask her out. I imagine I would have if I had enough left on the bar tab for dinner, but really I wasn't too concerned that I had to make my move this week. Reason being that I'm a bit less sure about her now that I know her better. We are very different in many ways but it could still work out. I found out that she is 30, which is what I thought. I still don't know how old the other woman I mentioned earlier is, but I'm quite certain she's even older than Reggie.
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Mar 31, 2005 20:55:35 GMT 10
Post by zzzzzzzzzzzzzz on Mar 31, 2005 20:55:35 GMT 10
Good luck David Zeddies xxx
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Apr 1, 2005 16:47:23 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 1, 2005 16:47:23 GMT 10
I realized today that I would be unable to attend the quiz for the next four Wednesday's. This girl had told me where she worked so I decided I'd just drive over there and ask her out. Unfortunately she wasn't there. I've decided I'll ditch the event next week unless I get my chance before then.
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Apr 2, 2005 6:38:35 GMT 10
Post by eek on Apr 2, 2005 6:38:35 GMT 10
This girl had told me where she worked so I decided I'd just drive over there and ask her out. bad idea!! did she invite you to cme to her job??? if not...i'd advise against doing that again. whew! sometimes the universe has a way of sending us messages....and looking out for our best interest. patience is a "fruit of The Spirit".
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Apr 2, 2005 11:36:27 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 2, 2005 11:36:27 GMT 10
As to inviting me to come to her job, after saying she was a travel agent and saying where she worked she said to come there if I was going on a trip. My intention was to walk in there and talk briefly to her, telling her that I wouldn't be going to the quiz for some weeks and then asking if she wanted to go out some time. I was going to pretend I was stopping by because I was in the area, as it might seem weird otherwise.
You mention patience lol. That doesn't help much given my bad luck of finding good people who are both local and available. I haven't been on a date since the 90's! I'm a tragi-comic figure.
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Apr 2, 2005 19:31:06 GMT 10
Post by boo on Apr 2, 2005 19:31:06 GMT 10
As to inviting me to come to her job, after saying she was a travel agent and saying where she worked she said to come there if I was going on a trip. My intention was to walk in there and talk briefly to her, telling her that I wouldn't be going to the quiz for some weeks and then asking if she wanted to go out some time. I was going to pretend I was stopping by because I was in the area, as it might seem weird otherwise. she will see right thru that. bad move. just be patient. if it is supposed to happen it will. well, then u weren't meant to go on a date! so just "get out there" more! you have plenty o dates, D!! just you see!
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Apr 2, 2005 19:40:47 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 2, 2005 19:40:47 GMT 10
Thanks for the advice. Can you check your PM's thanks.
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Apr 3, 2005 18:37:06 GMT 10
Post by update pls on Apr 3, 2005 18:37:06 GMT 10
sooo David, whats the update on the older woman and the travel agaent chick.... have you asked one of em out yet??
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Apr 3, 2005 19:14:20 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 3, 2005 19:14:20 GMT 10
sooo David, whats the update on the older woman and the travel agaent chick.... have you asked one of em out yet?? Not yet. I haven't seen the older woman for a long time, and I intend to ask the other woman out on Wednesday when I see her.
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Apr 6, 2005 22:12:21 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 6, 2005 22:12:21 GMT 10
Well it didn't turn out quite like I would have thought. She came late, and in the time prior to her coming I found out from listening to her flatmate that she has a boyfriend. He sounds like a bit of a loser, and her flatmate said he was just using her. So I wasn't going to make a move after hearing that. From what happened, though, it appears to me there is reason for hope. I'd like feedback from women in this matter to know what to make of it. The first thing was when I told her I had been past the place she worked earlier in the day. She told me I should stop in and see her. Later on I again talked to her about something related to where she works and she gave me her business card, which of course has contact details. These things make me wonder if she's thinking of me as a possibility and might dump the guy she's going out with.
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Apr 6, 2005 22:58:27 GMT 10
Post by chicks opinion on Apr 6, 2005 22:58:27 GMT 10
well in my opinion , her telling you to stop in next time your in the area and then she gives you her biz card when you asked her about something - this means to me that she hasnt shut you out completely. If a girl doesnt want a guy to know her /speak to her, she'll do everything to try and avoid him. But it looks like shes opened the door for you to be 'friends' with her.
BUT dont get too excited and thinks she likes you yet, or you might scare her away. She seems like she just wants to be friends for now, and see where it goes from there.
Thats my 2 cents.
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Apr 7, 2005 16:52:50 GMT 10
Post by boo on Apr 7, 2005 16:52:50 GMT 10
Hey! How's tomorrow at 10am Sydney time? ;D
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Apr 7, 2005 20:47:59 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 7, 2005 20:47:59 GMT 10
Hey! How's tomorrow at 10am Sydney time? ;D Um, what are you talking about? Is this addressed to me?
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Apr 8, 2005 13:12:55 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 8, 2005 13:12:55 GMT 10
I asked about the older lady of a person who has her number last night, and they said they should give her a call. So maybe she'll come along next time. The only thing I can report of her is that last time she was there she accidentally touched my ass lol.
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Apr 9, 2005 22:24:12 GMT 10
Post by David on Apr 9, 2005 22:24:12 GMT 10
I found out something rather extraordinary tonight. I saw a friend of mine tonight, and today another friend of mine had called him up and told him about his evening last night. He had went out clubbing. If it weren't for something I had on, I would have come also. Anyway, one of the things he mentioned was that he spent half an hour dancing with a girl. Of all the girls out there, it just so happens that this girl (Nicola) was the one I am interested in! I am very happy about this coincidence, because of what I learnt. I am going to call up this friend tomorrow to learn everything I can, in order to know how best to proceed. It sounds like my friend made a move on her, because she said he was too young for her (he is younger than me). She also said she had a boyfriend, saying that she had been going out with him for a little while but wasn't sure if it was going to go anywhere. To hear her express doubt about her relationship is encouraging for me. For various reasons I did have doubt about the significance of her giving me her business card. There were things that suggested to me she was thinking of business when she did so. Since she gave my friend her business card even though she turned him down it's pretty clear it didn't necessarily mean anything.
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