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Post by Beautifulfriend on Jun 17, 2005 14:29:34 GMT 10
 I'm more sad than words can say, but it's time
I just can't be on this board anymore.
I have been a member here for more than two years and have been through many ups and downs. I have seen many members come and go, most of whom I have formed warm friendships with.
But this forum has turned NASTY. Some of those I love and have respeceted are wandering the boards with such venium it has started to infect the whole vibe.
I have tried VERY hard to be patient understand caring - to PM and post things to change the mood but I've finally had enough.
I'm in tears as I write this because I love the OG's but unfortunalty there is a rip in the family tree and there is nothing I can do to make it better. Every day I come here wanting to find a little "Joy" only to see malice and spiteful posts everywhere.
I have no wish to be here anymore and feel that the friendships I treasure will be effected if I stay. For those of you who wish to stay in contact please PM me or visit me on the new AI 3 forum. insideaustralianidol.com/forum/index.php
I won't be coming here to post as of tomorrow.
If you would like to share your mobile number or email address please PM me here and I will check and reply to your message over the next week or so.
As for the OGSMPA - I will add those who have asked to join and then I will had over my job to MONKEY if she will take it on.
Much love to all and thanks for the memories
xx Bo
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Post by bellaangelo86 on Jun 17, 2005 14:55:46 GMT 10
I'm sorry I don't know you personally but that just made me really sad. :-/To think that people could be so rude and awful that it turns people away >:(just dishartens me. I'm really sorry that you feel this way. Well I don't know what else to say.... maybe just see you on AI3 board?  |
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Post by nanouk on Jun 17, 2005 14:56:30 GMT 10
NOOOOOOOO!
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Post by Jess on Jun 17, 2005 15:04:32 GMT 10
I feel the same.
Bo. thank you for the great friendship at this forum. You're a treasure and I love you!
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Post by someone who cares bout you on Jun 17, 2005 15:12:52 GMT 10
this makes me very sad indeed
you are a fundamental person to this board and I never thought I would see this happen
I would like to sincerely thankyou for all the kindness you have extended to me and everyone
this board would NEVER be the same without you and this is a truly sad day
can I just say to the small few who have been involved in the nastiness
clearly with such a diverse group there will be some personalities that just dont mesh
so why not just accept you will never be friends and ignore eachother
in real life you would not constantly interact with people you dont like
so just leave eachother alone instead of constantly sniping at eachother
if you cant do that then its upsetting others please consider that and your place on this board
please stay bo
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Post by ~bEaNiE BaBe~ on Jun 17, 2005 15:13:11 GMT 10
No Bo 
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Post by frogo sad too on Jun 17, 2005 15:21:36 GMT 10
This will be a very long thread.
No-one wants you to go Bo. Please don't.
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Post by gemini~nay on Jun 17, 2005 15:29:03 GMT 10
it's sad to hear that you feel this way bo 
i do hope that you will one day find your way
back here.
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Post by SoCrazyInLoveWithGUY on Jun 17, 2005 15:32:00 GMT 10
So sad to hear of your decision, Bo.
Maybe give it a couple more weeks & see what the vibe's like then before you leave?
xxx
SoC
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Post by HairBear on Jun 17, 2005 15:43:33 GMT 10
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Post by joes unlogged on Jun 17, 2005 15:52:44 GMT 10
Dear Bo
Maybe I should think about this a little longer but I need to say that going is not the answer to all of this.
Not only from the point of view that Iwill miss you as many others will, but that this board needs your input and positivity now more than ever. It is hard to see it all out when the going gets tough.
Lets not forget the reason why we are all here in the first place to support Guy in any and everyway we can. We not only believe in who he is but also all the good things he stands for. Yes we can still do that elsewhere, but this board has always been an integral part of his support network and I believe will continue to do so. For you not to remain here is extremely sad for me.
There is a lot of anger and hurt feelings being displyed here at the moment and yes it is difficult to cope with but we have all been trying to continue the best way we can until it calms down.
To all the people who are involved in this, all I can say is please find it in your hearts to either forgive those that you have been hurt by and move on from this, (you will find you will be the better person for it) or at least be civil to each other.
I am another who thought that the thread should have been moved. Not to hurt anyone here by any means but it has been contraversial, just like the abortion thread and I think the appropriate place for these topics is definitly in the general section.
There has been so much opposition on this board and around Guys life since he won idol, lets not give in to it and let it win.
I will continue to stand with the people here on this board. I am sad that anyone feels they have to leave because I know that is not the best answer.
But in saying all that I dont see as you see or feel what you are feeling at this time dear Bo. I'm only calling it from where i sit. So my love and support are with you and the wonderful person that you are and I respect whatever decision you feel that you need to make.
I love you
Jo xxx
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Post by melvin on Jun 17, 2005 16:14:08 GMT 10
Bo, I dont know u that well but I have been here for long enough to know that u are a fundamental part of what makes this board so great!! By the way I havent seen any spiteful posts anywhere on here! Maybe its just me but I cant see that leaving is going to do anything. All of the guys on here are nothing but nice to everyone who joins. I dont see what the problem is! But if u think this is the right thing to do then I'll miss you if u go! Just maybe think it over for a few days and see how u feel. Melissa |
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Post by evangeline on Jun 17, 2005 16:53:55 GMT 10
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Post by cherub on Jun 17, 2005 17:03:19 GMT 10
So sorry to hear you are leaving Bo We will really miss your uplifting and positive posts. You are a very special person. Hoping you will change your mind but understand if you need to do this. |
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Post by gemma luvs guy on Jun 17, 2005 17:57:21 GMT 10
awww so sad ur leaving Bo xoxoxoxo gem
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